There's actually a surprising number of people who still use both. People who feel they've been wronged are usually pretty vocal about it. I'm not saying they're exaggerating or lying or anything either, mind you, just pointing out that's the way the human mind works. Capital One pissed me off and I told everyone who would listen for like a decade after, but no one really volunteers info about uneventful relationships.

1d ago

Lemmy.zip & Piefed.zip Server Update August 2026

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LazyBaby @lemmy.zip 1d ago

Glad you found a way to still be here!

1d ago

Life After I Turned 30 [Sarah's Scribbles]

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LazyBaby @lemmy.zip 1d ago

I really relate to this comic. I didn't like being a child that much, and I feel alienated a lot on the internet by people constantly wishing they could go back to having no responsibilities. I really, really like being able to control my own destiny and decide what I wanna do, even though it comes with increased pressures and responsibilities.

2d ago

A Crazy Scandal with a Competent Press, Maybe

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LazyBaby @lemmy.zip 2d ago

Yeah, people don't actually care what happen to women and children

2d ago

Just a good dude [meme][Alan Wake]

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LazyBaby @lemmy.zip 2d ago

Omg agree with you times 1,0000 I thought I was the only one

2d ago

I just didn't like Outlast II as much. How about you? [meme]

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LazyBaby @lemmy.zip 2d ago

Lol, I do get what you mean

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2d ago

meme

I just didn't like Outlast II as much. How about you?

2d ago

ICE agents accused of racial profiling and using racist slurs in explosive court filing

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LazyBaby @lemmy.zip 2d ago

Sorta. That ruling allowed them to use race as a criteria, but not the criteria for stopping someone. So the ACLU is seeking to prove that racial profiling is the primary and often only sorting criteria ICE is using, which is currently not allowed as far as we know (or it will force the courts to just admit that racial profiling is 100% open season now).

They're also calling them tonks, which isn't so much a racial slur but refers to the sound a flashlight makes when they hit someone over the head with it. It's not just that they're no-no words, it's that the language they are using is very much linked to the violence they are also doing.

There are ongoing cases about the Pretti / Good murders also at a minimum, so it's not an either-or situation.

That's not to say that any of this is good or acceptable, mind you. The fact that the country didn't absolutely grind to a halt over all of this is a massive failure, of course.

2d ago

Reddit stock collapses 23% as AI eats away at user growth

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LazyBaby @lemmy.zip 2d ago

And you didn't even really ouch on the insane toxicity that's festered there x_x

They are SO friendly toward racism and bigotry as long as you don't actually say a slur, but then their moderation is such a mess that you can get perma-banned for a sarcastic joke.

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3d ago

Alan Wake

Just a good dude [meme]

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3d ago

Dead By Daylight

My little crow perk... [meme]

3d ago

Reddit stock tumbles the most on record as lack of new AI deals, US daily users metric disappoints

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LazyBaby @lemmy.zip 3d ago

Rest in piss!

4d ago

Anger

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LazyBaby @lemmy.zip 4d ago

Yeah, I'm with you. I feel like there's a possibility that this person is experiencing a complex trauma that continues to affect their minute-to-minute life in negative ways, and the therapist was trying to guide them toward a kind of acceptance that could have eased some of those negative effects but their patient just wasn't having it. Maybe not ready for it.