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Autism @lemmy.world What's Your Least Favourite Noises?
Patient Gamers @sh.itjust.works PSA - Misleading Discount Wishlist Percentages On Steam
Autism @lemmy.world I Feel Kind of Bad About Food Waste
Chronic Illness @lemmy.world How Many of Us Do You Think Have Medical Trauma
Ye Power Trippin' Bastards @lemmy.dbzer0.com Banned for Posting an Actually Unpopular Opinion, and Reporting Rulebreaking Comments
Unpopular Opinion @lemmy.world Downvoting on Social Media is Toxic
Autism @lemmy.world Anyone Else Confused by Praise?
Chronic Illness @lemmy.world Back in Hospital Again…
Linux Gaming @lemmy.world Does Anyone Else Skip Processing Vulkan Shaders?
Games @lemmy.world I Hate Native Linux Games
Voyager @lemmy.world OpenDyslexic Font
Games @lemmy.world Anyone else get bored once they reach the final boss?
Games @lemmy.world Which game did you get the most and least enjoyment per dollar out of?
In real life, I've found its better to just hold your ground. State your opinion, but make it clear you're not changing it or looking to change others'. Contrived Example:
The only thing I'd maybe change is in your first reply maybe say "I don't like pineapple on pizza" rather than a general statement, but I gave a messy example because real world conversations are messy. You can't expect to say everything perfectly all the time.
Mostly in real life, people just want to have the conversation flow. If you make something a sticking point, it gets awkward. Even if it's something you really really disagree with, like on a moral basis, just say you disagree and why. If people get defensive, just say something like "you do you" and drop it.
There's this strange thing that happens, where simply the existence of an unresolved competing opinion, that isn't antagonistic, does some magic psychology stuff I don't fully understand. Over time your friends' opinions will often shift to be a compromise. My theory is, it's because they still want to be your friend, even with your different opinion, so their mind resolves the conflict in any way it can, which often means their position becomes more moderate. It's not manipulation, you're just holding your position and others shift around it.
You don't have to "win" the debate. Just have your opinion survive the conversation relatively unchanged.