Depends on how much time you knew someone. But I think generally it's speaks better of a person not to ghost someone. I'd want someone to tell me, and it's only right to do the same in kind for someone else.
God, I remember stories of some women who falsely claim sexual assault which has ruined people's livelyhoods. When there are consequences, just ruling on vibes and a 1 sided account of a story is so incredibly bad.
No, but it's common for Poppers to be labeled as "VCR Cleaner". Poppers if you didn't know can cause your sphincter muscle to relax, making insertion easier.
Doesn't happen on my lemmy account. Maybe it's a mix of voyage and piefed.
Anyway, apologies for the initial comment, it was probably seen as rude